Gentleman vs. Player


A man who flatters her vs. a gentleman who compliments her.

A man who spends money on her vs. a gentleman who invests in her.

A man who views her as property vs. a gentleman who views her properly.

A man who lusts after her vs. a gentleman who loves her.

A man who believes he is a gift to women vs. a gentleman who believes she’s a gift to him.

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    July 15, 2013 at 2:32 am

    Those were such beautiful thoughts.

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      July 15, 2013 at 5:10 am

      Thank you, Anon!

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    July 15, 2013 at 3:00 am

    this is so good , thank you for posting! .

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    July 15, 2013 at 10:43 pm

    When I open my e-mail and see a post from you, it’s the FIRST thing I read. Thank you for sharing your wise insight to both beautiful women–both in looks and character–and REAL men. There ARE real men out there, and blessed is the woman who can discern the real vs. the phony!

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      July 16, 2013 at 1:07 am

      Dear Jane! Thank you for your darling comment! I was so delighted when I read your thoughts! Its always, always such an encouragement to hear readers thoughts – and yours just made my day! Thanks for stopping by! xx

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    July 22, 2013 at 6:22 pm

    I saw your beautiful page on Facebook and, I don’t know which side is the gentleman and which side is the player but, the articles content is beautifully written and, I could not agree more with what was said. I look again to reading more articles from this blog. Until anon, Good bye. 🙂

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    August 14, 2013 at 2:31 am

    Very Good

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    August 23, 2013 at 11:37 am

    Well said! Brilliant! I hope the women who continually attract this players finally wake up to them.

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      August 26, 2013 at 9:56 pm

      Thanks, dingdong!

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