I recently read a news article featuring photography of Philip Toledano and his proposition of introducing a new kind of beauty. Over the years our perception of “beautiful” has been warped into some altered figure of plumbed-lips, wrinkle-free face, copious amount of cleavage and stick skinny legs to boot. With the incredible rise in women choosing plastic-surgery we now have a plethora of women having the opportunity to shape, form and create their own version of beautiful.
Should we re-define beauty into something that is designed by a surgeons hand? Stretching, pulling and tucking which make a normally natural look become ageless and immovable. Those who find their beauty by altering their appearance will find that after time even that appearance will fade and in most cases need to be re-touched and altered as time goes by.
Beauty, I believe is much deeper than the outer appearance of a woman. It can’t be defined by the size of someone’s waist, the amount of cleavage one has or even how tall one is. I have met women who are naturally ascetically beautiful, yet their personality was oftentimes catty and they were constantly jealous. Their focus was always on their outer appearance rather than their inner beauty. Then on the other hand I know some truly beautiful women. No, they will never win the Miss America Beauty Pageant but what they lack in physical appearance they defiantly make up with a vibrant personality and a zest for a fulfilling life. Their beauty shines from their warm, loving personality and is reflected in their smiles and actions.
How do you define beauty? Do you measure it by some Photoshopped look on the front of a glossy magazine or do you hold a higher standard of beauty?